Why do single women sleep with married men

Most people don't desire to cause harm to others. I am sure a cheating women never intended to cause any harm. She too only wanted to feel special, important and loved and that married man met a need. Sex with a married man is empty at the end of day and its got to be hard to trust. I know a women who cheated on her husband with a single man. They got married and he later cheated on her. I know he loved his wife and she loved him.

He died before he reached 50 and left his wife and children well cared financially and provided well for them all. Today she misses him in spite of his being human. Relationships are not easy, lets not judge each other so harshly! There are no innocent parties; except, the children. A wife or husband may get tired of managing all the different hats worn.

We may become complacent and neglect the hard work to keep a marriage strong. The person who partners with the mate and cheats, is not the problem. The cheating is only a symptom of a much deeper marital problem. Usually a breakdown in communication or an inability to talk about a problems one or both are having.

Cheating is not always about not loving a mate. Like magic, girls became drawn to him and offered sex as cheaply as imaginable. Regardless, the idea, apparently, for many women who intentionally date married men, is that young men of their own age are yet to find their feet and would find it difficult to meet the outlandish demands they make in order to fund their unsustainable, opulent lifestyles.

But guess who has more than enough to sponsor trips abroad, super-expensive weaves and all other aspects of the glamorous life these women seek?

So the need to sustain an expensive lifestyle regardless of a low economic standing is one reason why. Another reason for this could be the need for independence; to be free to enjoy sexual satisfaction and all other pleasures of a relationship without actually being in a relationship. She wants to keep partying and living as she deems fit and not shifting and bending to accommodate some guy in her life.

The relative detachment which many married men often feel towards side-chicks is very perfect and enables this independence that Dairo speaks of. For some other babes, this is the attraction point. Having been with a married woman for a while and being a man in his mid-thirties and older would have enabled him to not just be more financially loaded, but also very experienced at treating women with more care and their bodies to more pleasure. Though the stereotype paints women like Dana as home-wreckers, she has always discouraged the men from leaving.

In at least one case, that has come back to haunt her. He was a co-worker, Paul, and after lots of flirting in the office, they began getting drinks and dinner, despite the fact that he had a girlfriend. It got as far as kissing at the end of the night. When he suggested that maybe he should leave his girlfriend so they could be together, she got scared. I wish I had been strong enough then to really tell him what I wanted.

But how could she not suspect? I would never have a marriage like that. Already a subscriber? They were in love once, but then she changed, or he changed, or maybe he was never really in love with her at all in the first place — he just married her because that was the right thing to do. Credit: Stocksy. Remind yourself, too, that it's OK to have sex with him because his wife won't have sex with him, and men need to have sex!

I mean, she might not want to have sex with him because he's a complete prick to her but, hey, if she refuses to have sex with him then he has every right to get it elsewhere and she can't blame you for stepping in. Now, of course, he'll lose his kids, at least temporarily, when he runs off with you.

And yes, he'll miss not living with them anymore, but your love will be enough to compensate! He might cry a lot for the first few months. He might get horribly depressed living away from his kids. But that will pass in a year or three! And, eventually, his kids will come to visit you on weekends, and you'll be a big, happy, blended family.

The kids won't hate you for breaking up their parents' marriage. They won't resent you for making their mum sad. They will accept you, love you and you'll take the girls out for manicures and the boys out to Star War movies and it will be rainbows and unicorns forevermore.