Who is safe guy

If you still want to be friends,go ahead,but not on your dime. Thanks Jrose, but I actually agree with you. I'm unaware of where I was speaking about being friends with that girl.

If you could point out the segment you were referring to, I'll try and recap what I was getting at. If she tells me that I am only there for that reason then I would not be there. But I'm wondering more of how do you know if you are there for that reason if she is acting like she likes you and not telling you that you are only a back up plan?

Since I actually don't drink and chose my username randomly that seems to be the only way it's going to impact me. It would be pretty ignorant to make judgements about someone based on their username wouldn't it ArtistBboy? ArtistBboy-"Takemedrunkimhome" is highly intelligent and personable. If you spoke to him from time to time like I do then you'd probably share the same opinion.

The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion! If you aren't sure what a "safe guy" is then its basically the guy a girl can have on the back burner who is unattractive at least to her and no other girl would want. She doesn't have to worry about you finding someone else because no one else would want you. You are just there as a back up plan if things don't work with a guy or guys she is currently talking to.

You are loyal and that is your downfall. Also, you may be going on dates with her but she is just wanting some free meals and free movies out of it and she doesn't really want anything else. Guys - what are signs of this? Girls - why would you string someone along like this? I'm not saying that YOU have done this or are currently doing this but I would bet you at least know or have one female friend that has done this or is currently doing this. Share Facebook. Guys - How do you know you are the "safe guy"?

Add Opinion. I have never, ever done that! I can't honestly think of a female friend I know of who has done that, but then again, I only have a couple close female friends and the rest are guys. I think that's a really horrid way to treat anyone and I find myself wondering why anyone would put up with it? I know, if you really like a girl, you'll do a whole lot for her and put up with some of her crap in hopes that she'll finally fall for you.

But if she is honestly only using you to pay for her to go out, doesn't that make her a pretty mercenery and unfeeling person who you probably wouldn't want to date anyway? If there are girls like that, they really aren't worth your time and perhaps you should move on and find girls who are genuinely interested or will at least not lead you on. But, I also think sometimes guys seem to think ALL women will try to use guys for "free" dates, when sometimes they're just trying to build a friendship.

True, a girl should NOT expect a guy to pay for everything even when dating, but especially when they're just friends , but if a guy continually offers to pay or just pays a lot of the time, it isn't always intentional. I have had this happen before- hanging out with a new guy friend who would always beat me to the theatre and get the tickets then refuse money for them, pay for the pizza before I got my wallet, buy me a drink when we were out etc.

Eventually, I just insisted on paying for my own and paying for him every once in awhile to make up the difference because it made me uncomfortable, but it took awhile for me to get the courage to do that- I didn't want to offend him or seem ungrateful. I do think it's especially cruel if a girl KNOWS you like her and lets you do this, a girl should always be up front about wanting only to be friends if she knows the guy wants more.

I'm still shocked girls actually do this to guys! Is this still revelant? I've done it but not intentionally at least I don't think so. I treat him and view him as just a friend. I never ask him to hang out on a one to one basis, if it is one to one, t hen it's because he asked me and I feel bad saying no after refusing him so many other times. In situations such as this, usually the guy is very very aware that he is the "safe guy", because he wants her and she just wants him as a friend.

It's not considering string along. Also, the girl doesn't string the guy along because they guy puts himself in that situation of chasing the girl. Simple no? Show All Show Less. Xper 7. ArtistBboy opinions shared on Flirting topic. It's actually called the "Nice-Guy" Don't confuse that with "He's a nice guy" Nice-Guy is terminology for the un attractive guy physical appearance that doesn't create attraction and interest Emotion feelings towards the situation between each other.

So the whole time you focus your efforts on her, you feel like she is just wanting attention. A free ride is NOT attractive and there is no amount of money that will instantly change her mind. It's how she feels If you don't understand that, read this: link You can tell what works by gauging her interest and laughter.

Signs of you being the "Nice Guy" - You always pay the dime when you go out to eat, thinking that it's chivalrous that you do so.

You aren't. Read that site that I recommended above, it specifies a lot about this topic. Why would you put up with that, why would you want a chick that thinks your ugly, says that she doesn't have to worry about you getting with another girl because your so ugly, and just gets a free ride from you? I would most deffinantly proudly give her a taste of her own medicine. Sign Up Now! Related Questions. Vault doors can add that extra security you need to any room.

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